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Nifty 50 Fabulous

Fashion, beauty, and lifestyle blog for women over 50

Categories: Fashion

What To Wear To Spring Wedding In Atlanta

Hello, Darlings! Today’s topic is What To Wear To Spring Wedding In Atlanta. It is Wedding Season! The number of weddings this year is off the charts. So many people put off their weddings or are just now having a formal wedding (but already married) due to Covid issues. My husband and I were invited to a Saturday evening wedding in Atlanta, the invitation indicated the dress attire was a cocktail.

With everything else getting so much more casual, it is great to have the opportunity to “dress up” for an evening. Over the years I have been collecting items to have on hand for more formal/cocktail occasions so I don’t have to rush out to try to find something to wear at the last minute.

What To Wear To Spring Wedding In Atlanta

What To Wear To Spring Wedding In Atlanta

What To Wear To Spring Wedding In Atlanta-Check Your Invite For Dress Code

I love it when people put a dress code on the invitation. It makes it so much easier to plan your outfit. The invitation for our event stated Cocktail Attire. For me, that means that men need to wear a suit and tie, and women can wear a cocktail dress, sundress, or dressy pantsuit.

What To Wear To Spring Wedding In Atlanta- Know Your Venue

This is so important. Especially if you are attending a wedding outside in the South. Atlanta in the Spring, Summer, And Fall is HOT and HUMID. So if you are invited to a wedding that is outside, you need to take into consideration the weather. The wedding we were invited to was at a country club where the ceremony and reception were inside, but the cocktail hour was outside.

Even inside events can be either hot or very cold ( we really like our a/c in the South). If you wear a sleeveless dress you may want to consider bringing a light jacket/sweater/wrap.

What To Wear To Spring Wedding In Atlanta- Wear A Little Black Dress

I have several go-to dresses I can choose from for weddings and other events. I LOVE the “Little Black Dress” or LBD. It is a workhorse for these types of events and I can change the look, but changing the accessories and shoes. My wardrobe consists of several LBDs with different necklines and sleeve lengths.

What To Wear To Spring Wedding In Atlanta- Go For A Little Black Dress

For Jewelry- Rhinestones or Pearls

Adding jewelry is where the fun begins. The time of day or even the venue can help you decide how much bling is appropriate for a wedding. For a more formal evening event, you might want to pull out your best “bling”. But if the event is in the morning/afternoon or in a more casual venue, pearls are always a great option.

What To Wear To Wedding- Rhinestones or Pearls? Why not both!

If you can’t decide, do both! I decided to wear a gorgeous pair of rhinestone and pearl earrings to the wedding in Atlanta.

Accessories such as rings and bracelets add so much to an outfit

Because my dress had such an interesting neckline, I decided that a necklace might be too much. I let the dress be the show. To complete my jewelry, I added a beaded black bracelet with rhinestones and pearls.

Evening Bag or Not?

I like to take an evening bag to events and weddings, making sure I choose one that will fit my sunglasses, cell phone, tissues, and lipstick. If I don’t, then my husband’s pockets serve as my “keeping place” for these items. But, I have a nice collection of evening bags that I don’t get an opportunity to use. So when events like weddings come along, I want to show them off.

I chose a sequin clutch that fits my cellphone, sunglasses, and a lipstick for touch ups

The evening bag comes in handy to help save a seat for dining. Lucky for us, this wedding had assigned seats (which I LOVE) so we didn’t need to try to save seats.

Add A Lightweight Shawl or Wrap

My dress was sleeveless and I decided to wear a shawl for the evening. This came in handy as the wedding space was quite chilly. It also gave a pop of color and interest to my all-black outfit.

Add a shawl or wrap to an outfit for a hint of color and warmth

My shawl is the Cashmere Gauze Stole from Kettlewell Colours in Pink Ice. The color gave a touch of softness to the outfit. When the time came for dancing, I just neatly folded it and placed it on my chair as a placeholder. I actually got several compliments on my shawl.

Choose Shoes Wisely

If I was younger, this would not be an issue. But after suffering from plantar fasciitis for several years, I don’t take shoe choices lightly. It is finding a balance between comfort and appropriate for the occasion. Block heels are a great choice for stability and comfort. If you want to wear a higher heel, look for a shoe with a slight platform in the toe area, this will help take some of the stress off your instep.

Be choosy when selecting shoes. I love a block heel shoe with platform toe area for stability and comfort
My shoes are block heels with a platform in the toe bed to give stability and comfort. These are several years old from Stuart Weitzman.

You don’t have to wear high heels. If you chose not to, look for a lower heel with rhinestones to help elevate the look. Stay away from a kitten heel or thinner heel as you will lose stability. Plus, if the venue is outside, you don’t want to be punching holes in the lawn all evening.

Use Pre Heels Spray for blister prevention
Blister preventing spray such as Pre Heels

One of my favorite products to use before you put on your shoes is an anti-friction/blister preventing spray such as Pre Heels. You spray it on, let it try to a tacky feel, then put on your shoes. I spray it on my heel area and where my straps come in contact with my feet.

Treat Yourself To Manicure & Pedicure

I don’t get the opportunity to go to many events, so when I do I like to treat myself to a manicure and pedicure. It is amazing how much better your hands and feet look when your nails are done. I chose a purple/Fuschia color that would go with all my outfits for the weekend.

Many people like to wear a color called Funny Bunny, which is white with a tint of pink, or go with a more natural french manicure look. Not me, I like color. If you don’t have time to get your nails done, there are some great “press on” types of nails that you can quickly put on to give you a manicured look.

To Tan Or Not To Tan- That IS The Question

I will be honest, most people look better and thinner with a tan. Because pantyhose are now considered out of style, need to look at some options for tanning. I am lucky in that I tan quite easily, but in the early Spring months, I need to self-tan, especially my legs so they look thinner and the cellulite is less noticeable if I wear a shorter dress.

I use Jergens Natural Glow self tanning lotion for buildable natural looking tan
Jergens Natural Glow for tanning legs, arms, and straplines.

I don’t like spray tan booths, I have had bad results. So to keep it looking as natural as possible (and to prevent orange hands) I use Jergens Natural Glow Firming Body Lotion in Medium To Deep Tones. You can use it daily to help “build up” a tan look. It will not stain your hands, but I still wash them carefully. Test it a week or so before your event to make sure the color works with your skin tone. They do have a lighter version. I do not use this on my face.

Try A Bronzer

To help hid tan lines, I use Tarte Amazonian Clay Matte Bronzer in Hotel Heiress. This is a DEEP color
Use a bronzer to cover straplines and give your skin a sun-kissed glow

I play a lot of tennis, so straplines are a problem. Many times the Jergen’s Natural Glow does not completely cover the straplines so I use a bronzing powder to finish the job. The product I use is the Tarte Amazonian Clay Matte Waterproof Bronzer in Hotel Heiress. This is a DEEP Bronzing color. It is buildable and I apply it with a Kabuki style brush that I only use for the bronzer.

Shop Your Closet First

One of the best things about packing for my weekend in Atlanta is that I could easily “Shop My Closet”. I did not need to run out and purchase anything for the trip. I have built a wardrobe that works for my lifestyle, with pieces that work with my color palette and body type. No panic buying!

This has taken some time to create, but I am thrilled with the results. My closet is organized and labeled and I could quickly find items that are rarely used such as my evening clutch. This makes packing for a trip so much easier.

Categories: Fashion

The Power Of Prints

Hello, Darlings! Today’s topic is the Power Of Prints. Prints are hard, but if you get them right they become workhorses in your wardrobe. Print can minimize or maximize. Which print you pick out and where you put it on your body is key. But remember, knowing your BEST colors, body type, personal style, and lifestyle are key. Our goal is to have a smaller wardrobe that we love and can mix and match.

With swimsuit season just around the corner, I went to Lands’ End website for lots of examples of how you can use color. Lands’ End is my favorite retailer for swimsuits. Their swimsuits are well made, with great support, and hold up to the sun, salt, and chlorine.

The Power Of Prints

The Power Of Prints
This black/white print is a medium size and draws attention UP and away from my hips and thighs. Prints can minimize or maximize.

Know Your Body Type And Challenge Areas Before Picking Out Prints

If you know your Body Type and Body Type Rule, picking out prints can be easier. Not everyone can wear or should wear printed pants. A great print scarf can draw attention to the face and make you look more balanced. Here is a quick recap of Body Type Rules as it pertains to prints

  • b Body Type or Apple– You want attention UP and DOWN, away from the belly. Use prints on the bottom, scarves, dresses, and layering pieces. You can wear a printed top that is darker, especially if the background matches your pants (Column of Color). Printed layering pieces that are lighter than the top will work best.
  • d Body Type or Pear- You want attention UP and OUT. Stay away from printed bottoms unless it is a very dark print and your top is much lighter. Use prints on tops, scarves, layering pieces, and dresses.
  • O Body Type– This person is overly endowed and tends to gain weight in their chest area. Printed tops and dresses are their friends. The eye doesn’t know where to go and this helps minimize the chest area. They can also wear prints on pants. Stay away from printed scarves as it draws attention to the chest area.
  • X Body Type or Straight and Curvy– You can wear prints anywhere and can have fun with them. If you have a “challenge area” use the rules above to address it.

Power of Prints – Choosing The Right Print Can Make You Look Smaller

Yes! Choosing the right print can make you look smaller. The keyword here is “right”. Not all prints will do this. We have already discussed choosing prints to match your STAR STYLE. This is key in that a print that is too large, or too small for your body frame can work against you.

Picking Out Prints Using STAR STYLE
Chose prints that are proportional to your body using the STAR STYLE method

Power Of Prints- Choosing The Right Color Print

If you are a d Body Shape or Pear, you want prints to be on the top half of your body and lighter than your bottoms or the background the same as your bottom. What you don’t want is your bottoms lighter. Choose dark bottoms and pick a great print.

Power of Prints- Prints on top can draw attention Up helping to create balance even with a swimsuit
A large amount of white in this print draws attention UP towards the face and away from hips and thighs.

This is an example of how a print can maximize. The lighter color draws attention UP and makes the top half look bigger. This is good if you are a d Body Shape or Pear. It helps to create balance.

Power Of Prints- Prints with the same background color as bottoms can create a column of color, making you look slimmer
This would be an AMAZING swimsuit for a d body shape or Pear. The polka dot print draws your eye up, the darker bottom minimizes, and the darker background matches the bottoms creating almost a column of color. Very slimming look. Both pieces are from Lands’ End.

Here the darker background in the print and the matching darker bottom create a column of color, minimizing and creating a slimmer look.

Power of Prints For b Body Shape or Apple

Our goal is to draw attention away from the belly area. So we need to make sure we put our prints in strategic areas. The most important detail for b Body Shape women is that the swimsuit should not be too tight in the belly area. Size up or look for styles such as tankinis that are flowier and longer.

Placing prints on the bottom helps draw the eye down away from belly area
b Body Types can enjoy printed bottoms. Here a darker top minimizes the belly area and a printed bottom draws attention down.
Power of Prints- The eye does not know where to go so it does not focus on one area.
For a summer dress or a swim dress, prints can help minimize. Here the eye does not know where to go. The cut of the swim dress brings the eyes UP and away from the belly.
Power Of Prints- For b Shape it is important that the swimsuit is not too tight around the belly area. This flowy printed top is a great choice.
b Body Shape needs to make sure that the top is NOT too tight over the belly area. No belly bulges. Look for a printed top that is flowy.

Power Of Prints For An O Body Shape

An O Body Shape is someone who is “Overly Endowed” so the goal is to draw attention away from the bust line. Strategically selected prints will do the job perfectly. Prints can minimize or maximize, the eye doesn’t really know where to focus.

Power of Prints- Stripes going in multiple directions can give a slimming effect
Stripes going in different directions. For O Body Shape you do not want horizontal stripes on the chest area.
Power Of Prints- Tie Dyed print can help minimize a women who is a O Body Shape. The eye doesn't know where to go
This print is great for O Body Type. The eye does not know where to go so it doesn’t focus on one area.
This top is a great selection for a women who is an O/b Body Shape. Minimizing print with blouson top and solid bottom
The most important thing to think about for O Body Types is support. Make sure you have good support in the bra area. Also, make sure the bathing suit is not too tight, go up a size. Many O Body Types also struggle in the belly area, so a blouson style suit with print will work very well.
Other great selection for an O/b Body Type. Animal print to minimize and wrap top to create a waist.
Another option for O Body Type is the swim dress. Make sure you have good support up top. The print draws the eye all over and the ruching on the side helps define the waist.

Power Of Prints X Body Shape And Curvy

For the most part, X Body Shape and Curvy gals can wear whatever print they want but continue to emphasize the waist area, showing off their hourglass shape. But if they do have a “challenge area” they can use prints strategically. Here are some examples from Miraclesuit.

Power of Prints- Polka Dot print bathing suit with side ruching for slimming effect
Small polka dot print does not emphasize any one area, but the ruching helps to define the waist
Power of Prints- Side print to draw attention to waist line to help create an hourglass shape
The side print in this suit emphasizes the waist area creating an hourglass shape
Power of Prints- Print pattern mixing help create the illusion of a waist.
Here a pattern change helps to emphasize the waist area.
Power Of Prints- Print mixing and color mixing along with side ruching help to create a slimming effect and define the waist.
This suit pulls out all the tools! Pattern changes, patterns in different directions, color changes, and ruching to create a slimming effect that emphasizes her hourglass or X Body Shape.

Know Your Challenge Areas!

Before you go shopping, know your challenge areas. Patterns are powerful tools to have in your wardrobe. But you need to know how to use them. Don’t forget your “Star Style” when choosing patterns. Too large a pattern will overwhelm a Petite gal. Small prints will make a “Rock Star” look larger. Be strategic when selecting prints.

Categories: Fashion

Tips For Wearing White Jeans

Hello, Darlings! It is Spring Time and that means it is time to pull out white jeans. So today I am going to give you some Tips For Wearing White Jeans. White jeans can be hard to wear for Pear or d Body Shape (those whose challenge area is the bottom, hips, and thighs). The reason is that white is the #1 color on the Color Attractiveness Scale, which means your eyes are drawn to white first before any other color.

As Pears/d Body Shape our goal is to draw attention away from hips and thighs and towards our face. So in order to create balance, we have to work a little bit harder ( or more strategic) when wearing white jeans

Tips For Wearing White Jeans

Be Picky In Selecting White Jeans

Your white jeans need to fit you comfortably, with plenty of stretch. But, the material can not be too thin or it will show every lump and bump you have on your bottoms, hips, and thighs. For Pears/d Body Shape, look for white jeans that are boot cut or slightly flared for the best look. Apple/b Body Shape can wear slim-cut white jeans and thick white leggings.

Shop For White Jeans

Tip For Wearing White Jeans- Wear Nude Underwear!

As much as you try to find white jeans that are thick enough to not show lumps and bumps if they have any stretch they are going to be thinner. So make sure you wear shapewear/underwear that is nude, taupe, or sand color, and not white or black.

Shop For Nude Underwear/Shapewear

What Tops To Wear With White Jeans

Spring is here so pull out your favorite POP colors to wear with your white jeans. For Pears/d Body Shape you need to have an interesting neckline or even a print that has some white in it to help balance the white jeans. I like to wear a faux wrap top and use a sports bra for a camisole, letting some of the white show thru and helping to bring attention UP to my face. For Apple/b Body Shape, look for longer tops with some swing.

Shop for my favorite colorful tops at Kettlewell Colours.

Tips For Wearing White Jeans- Chose  tops with interesting necklines to help bring attention towards the face and balance the white jeans
The Betty Cowl Neck Top from Kettlewell Colours helps to draw attention UP towards my face. The white earrings adds additional interest.
Tips For Wearing White Jeans- Add accessories in white or silver to help balance white jeans. Adding a white camisole also works
Faux Wrap Top from Kettlewell Colours adds a great POP of color UP towards my face. I am using my sports bra as a camisole for modesty and to bring a little white UP. The necklace also helps bring attention to my face and create balance.

Use Accessories To Help Create Balance With White Jeans

Strategic use of accessories is key to balancing white jeans on a Pear/d Body Shape. A necklace that has white in it or white earrings will help draw attention UP to the face. If you don’t have white, use your best metallics such as silver or gold. Also, a scarf in a print with a white background tied towards the face will do the trick to help create balance.

Shop For White Earrings

What Shoes To Wear With White Jeans

Shoe selection is important, especially if you are petite and want to look taller. White tennis shoes are on trend this year with white jeans. You can also wear nude, taupe color shoes, or metallics- pewter, bronze, or silver. If you are an Apple/b Body Shape and want to draw attention UP and DOWN, away from the belly area, you can wear any color/prints you would like. It is all about your body type and challenge areas.

A good question to ask is “Where Does The Eye Go?” and do I want it to be a feature? Hourglass or X Body Shapes want the eye to go all over so colorful shoes can be a great tool in helping to create balance.

Shop For Shoes To Wear With White Jeans

White sneakers are “on trend” this season. Many do not have any support and can be uncomfortable. Look to your comfort brands for white sneakers.

For nude/white/ and metallics check out natural details such as woven, rope, and cork for an updated look. Wedges and platforms are good for style and comfort. For me, comfort is #1 on the list.

Creating Columns Of Color With White Jeans

A Column Of Color is a great tool for creating the illusion of a slimmer figure. There are two types- Inner and Outer. To create an Inner Column Of Color, wear a white top or printed top with white background with your white jeans. Then add a layering piece such as a cardigan in a different color. The eye is drawn to the white. Learn more about creating an Inner Column of Colour-HERE

Column Of Color- Create Inner Column Of Color for a slimmer look with white jeans
This is an example of an Inner Column Of Color. White tank top with white jeans and I added a Sapphire Blue Jacket as a layering piece.

To create an Outer Column Of Color, wear a printed or color top and add a layering piece such as a white denim jacket or white cardigan. This also creates a slimming effect. Outer Column Of Color is especially useful for Pears/d Body Type. Learn more about creating an Outer Column Of Color- HERE

Tips For Wearing White Jeans- Wear a white jacket or cardigan to create an Outer Column Of Color
Not white jeans but white shorts. The same tips and tricks apply to create balance. Here I have created an Outer Column Of Color with the white denim shorts and white cardigan. The white earrings draw additional attention UP to my face.

Shop For White Layering Pieces

Layering pieces can be jackets, cardigans, or even vests. Make sure you pay attention to details such as buttons and pockets. I look for jackets and cardigans with very few details and straight lines. Also, make sure that the items do not hit at your widest point. Pushing up the sleeves to 3/4 length also is more flattering to all body types.

Shop Your Closet First!

As always before you go and buy, shop your closet first. You may be surprised at how many of these items you already have in your wardrobe. Also, a great cleaning tip for white jeans is to soak them in Oxiclean to help get them clean and stay bright, do not wash them with other colored items. I do not bleach them because the bleach can pull out the white dye leaving them dingy.

Categories: Fashion

Spring Shopping!

Hello, Darlings! Today I am going to show you my Spring Shopping! I have been very intentional with my purchases. After purging my closet, I have a list of things to shop for. My list is not too long because many of the items in my wardrobe are in good repair and fit me well.

Spring Shopping!

Spring Shopping

Spring Shopping- Updating My Luggage

I do not go on many trips and most of my luggage is in good repair, but my weekend bag was out of date and in poor condition. My old weekend duffle was a patterned Vera Bradley bag and I wanted something different. I fell in LOVE with the Oliver Thomas line of luggage.

Spring Shopping - New weekender bag from Oliver Thomas
The 24 + 7 Weekender Duffle is the perfect size for my weekend trips to the beach or the lake. This bag comes in many colors and some metallics

What is great about this line is that you can get matching cosmetics and soft train cases. I decided to go with metallic for my accessories. The cosmetics case is lined in plastic so it is easy to clean if you have a spill or leak. The train case has a top compartment for jewelry and/or makeup brushes. You could use the train case for cosmetics too, but I have both.

Spring Shopping- new train case from  Oliver Thomas in gunmetal
KST Trainwreck Case in Gunmetal
Oliver Thomas has matching cosmetic cases or go with a metallic such as gunmetal
Large Cosmetics Case

My tennis gals knew how much I LOVED this line from Oliver Thomas that they gave me as a thank you gift for hosting our tennis weekend the Tennis Backpack.

Love my new tennis bag in gunmetal from Oliver Thomas
My new Tennis Backpack is perfect to organize all my tennis stuff. This comes in 8 colors, 2 metallics, and can be customized. Mine is in Gunmetal.

Spring Shopping From Kettlewell

I really do not have a need for many clothes. My closet is in very good shape. But I got so much wear out of my Rachel Jacket that when they came out with an Electric Blue, I had to treat myself. The color is gorgeous and will go with all my Clear/Winter Seasonal Colors in my wardrobe.

Spring Shopping- My spurge is this gorgeous Rachel Jacket from Kettlewell Colour in Electric Blue
The Rachel Jacket from Kettlewell Colours is a motto-style faux suede jacket great for Petites.

Spring Shopping From Dillards

I will be honest with you, I don’t like shopping online at Dillard’s. They charge for shipping (even if you use their Dillards card unless it is over $100). They also charge for returns ( as much as $10). Not a lot of sales and I can usually get the same items cheaper at Macy’s.

But, I have been looking for a sleeveless black cowl neck top (Kettlewell doesn’t have one). So when I found one in Petites, I decided to pull the trigger and buy from Dillards. Macy’s did not have it in Petite.

Spring Shopping- On my needs list is a black cowl neck top. I purchased this one, Calvin Klein Petite Draped Neck from Dillards
This is a great basic top to have in your wardrobe. It comes in both black and white. The material is a thicker matte jersey that lays nicely.
Spring Fashion- Calvin Klein Draped Neck Top with black Boston Proper Pants and a POP of Purple, the Chloe Jacket in Pansy from Kettlewell Colours
Here is a close-up of me wearing the Calvin Klein Matte Jersey Drape/Cowl Neck top in black.

Spring Shopping From Macy’s

I like shopping from Macy’s online. Great sales and free shipping and free returns if you use your Macy’s card. I usually return Macy’s purchases to my local store for immediate credit. My local Macy’s store has very little stock and most of it is Macy’s Back Stage Line, which is their clearance/bargain merchandise.

Spring Shopping- Another on my needs list, a black camisole. This one is the Calvin Klein Petite Camisole from Macy's
Calvin Klein Petite V Neck Camisole

Another “basic” in my wardrobe is camisoles. Lightweight and great to wear under cardigans and jackets. I have specifically been looking for Petites so I do not have to have them altered. This one comes in both black and white.

Spring Shopping- Black Ponte Knit Pants

I LOVE my cropped black Cropped Pants From Boston Proper and wanted to add another pair. Mine is still available, but I saw they had Ankle Pants with slit bottom that I decided to buy. I wear my black Ponte knit pants most of the year with a great pair of platform shoes such as my OTBTs.

Spring Shopping- Stocking UP. I needed to have another pair of my favorite black pants on hand. Instead I decided to add these Ankle Pants with slit from Boston Proper
Beyond Travel Ponte Knit Ankle Pant With Slits In Black

Spring Shopping – Black Event Dress

With Covid dwindling, many of the events that were canceled during lockdowns and restrictions are being rescheduled. I have a need for a long black event dress. This has been on my list for a couple of years and I have struggled to find the right one. It has to have great shoulder details and material that will stretch.

Spring Shopping- On my "Needs" list is a black event dress. I found this one at Macy's online. Lauren Ralph Lauren Off The Shoulder Matte Jersey Long Black Dress
Black Event/Formal Dress from Lauren Ralph Lauren

I came across this dress from Lauren Ralph Lauren, my go-to designer for dresses on Macy’s website. It is the Off The Shoulder Matte Jersey Long Black Dress. I would call it almost a portrait collar neckline with ruching details at the waist and slit. It does not come in Petite so I will have to have it hemmed. The dress also comes in navy. I did size down from my normal size, I have lost some weight but the smaller size fits better in the underarm area.

Sweatshirts From Athleta

Spring Shopping- Needs list included colorful lightweight sweatshirt. I found this one at Athleta in Santorini Blue.
Athleta’s sweatshirts are sooo soft. This color, Santorini Blue is gorgeous. I size down in Athleta’s sweatshirts. These sweatshirts come in Regular, Petite, and Tall and come in about 19 colors.

The Athleta sweatshirts are very lightweight, so soft material that I can easily slip on for loungewear all year round. It is hard to find bright and bold colors, most are soft and muted. So when I see a bright, bold color I grab it up. Just after Christmas, I was able to get a fuchsia color sweatshirt, unfortunately, it is no longer available. This Santorini Blue is still available and is 20% off.

Spring Shopping – Swimsuits From Lands End

Several of my swims suits look very faded. The saltwater in my pool at the beach seems to be pulling the color out of them after a season. So I needed to find some more as I live in swimsuits during the summer months. Lands End is my favorite shop for swimsuits. I love the quality and fit.

Needing to replace some faded out bathing suits, I found this tankini top with removable straps at Land's End
This tankini has front ruching that is flattering and helps to conceal the tummy area. The top has removable straps.
I decided to also try this Square Neck Halter Tankini Top from Land's End
This tankini has front ruching with a square neckline. Very flattering! It comes in black and a Baltic Teal. Wish it came in Navy.
Love the higher waisted bikini bottoms from Land's End
Great high-waisted bottoms.

Spring Shopping- Beach Sarong

I feel a little “exposed” walking on the beach in just a bathing suit. I do have some coverups but I have been looking for a sarong that I liked. So when I saw this on Boston Proper’s website I decided to give it a go. LOVE the zebra print and this will go so well with my black bathing suit. They also have this same print in a tankini, high-waisted bottoms, and skirted bottoms.

I feel a little "exposed" on my beach walks, so I have added this zebra print Sarong from Boston Proper
Ocean Zebra Printed Sarong From Boston Proper

Shopping With Intent!

I am very pleased with the way my wardrobe is shaping up. I continue to edit as I lose weight and get more comfortable with my personal style. When you shop, laser-focused you can easily disregard most of the items on a retailer’s website and only focus on those that meet your needs. Before you shop, make use you know the following:

  • Is it in my BEST colors
  • Does it follow my Body Type Rules
  • Does it work with my Personal Style
  • Can I list at least 3 times I will wear it and does it work with my Current Lifestyle

Shop With A Needs/Want List

Just as you do when you go to the grocery store, make a list of those items you are shopping for this season. It may be a few items that are “trends” that you want to update your spring wardrobe. Or it may be some of the “holes” that you need to fill in your wardrobe so you can easily create outfits for any occasion.

Categories: Fashion

Choosing A Print- Think Level Of Contrast

Hello, Darlings! Part 2 in my series on prints, today’s topic is Choosing A Print- Think Level Of Contrast. Are you drawn towards certain prints and find that for some reason they don’t work on you? I have had this problem and have made many mistakes that end up being unworn clothing just taking up real estate in my closet.

Choosing A Print- Think Level Of Contrast

Choosing A Print- Think Level Of Contrast

First- Know Your Dominant Color Code

Some people know what colors look good on them. Many have even been color analyzed in a tonal or seasonal color system. I have learned that even though I have been seasonal analyzed as a Winter, not all the Winter colors work for me. So I have gone to a more Dominant Color Code, focusing on the one tonal color code that works best or is the strongest.

Using the Dominant Color Code System, you must look at hair, skin, and eyes. Hair is important because it is such a feature. Many women change their hair coloring, so your Dominant Color Code can change, especially if you go gray.

Chosing A Print- Think Level Of Contrast

Below is a list of the Dominant Color Codes and their level of contrast. Use this guide to help you in selecting a print that will work for your coloring.

Using Dominant Color Code To Chose Prints

  • Light Color Code– Light blonde hair with fair skin, usually light eyes. Can be brown hair with very fair skin. Pastels look amazing. Chose prints with medium to high contrast
  • Deep Color Code– Dark hair, medium skin tone, dark eyes. Jewel tones colors are their go-to. Low to medium contrast prints will work the best
  • Cool Color Code– Gray, silver, and “salt & pepper” ladies ROCK this color code. Look at this color code is you have been seasonal analyzed as a Summer. You look amazing in blues, pinks, and purples. Can wear medium to high contrast prints.
  • Warm Color Code– Red heads, strawberry blondes, and ladies with golden red highlights. Eye color and skin tones can vary. All the colors in the spice rack look amazing on her. Low to medium contrast in prints. If you have been seasonally analyzied as an Autumn, this may be your code
  • Soft Color Code-Medium color blondes or light to medium brown hair. Skin tone is light to medium, and eyes are the same. Very soft, gentle, and mellow colors will make you look amazing. Lots of colors to choose from, it is all about the intensity. Low contrast prints accentuate a Soft Color Code’s beauty.
  • Clear Color Code– Think “Snow White”! Dark hair with light color skin. African women with very dark hair and skin will also fall into the Clear Color Code because they need to contrast. High contrast prints look FABULOUS on these ladies.

Head To Toe Approach To Dressing

The idea is to mimic the amount of contrast between your hair, skin, and eyes down onto your clothing. If your color code has a higher contrast, you will want to choose a print that is high contrast. The reverse is true for someone who is a Soft Color Code, choose a print that is more muted or softer.

Dominant Light- Look For Medium To High Contrast Print

Choosing A Print-Right now it is easy to find tops in the Light Color Code. Beautiful pastel colors with white will go so well with white pants for a crisp, fresh look for sprint and summer
Right now it is easy to find tops in the Light Color Code. Beautiful pastel colors with white will go so well with white pants for a crisp, fresh look for sprint and summer
This fresh green top with white flowers is of higher contrast with medium size print.
This fresh green top with white flowers is of higher contrast with medium size print.

Dominant Deep- Look For Medium To Low Contrast Print

Choosing A Print-For the Deep Color Code, black background with prints in jewel-tone colors will be an easy find. This print is more Deep than Clear due to the amount of contrast. More colors, the less contrast.
For the Deep Color Code, black background with prints in jewel-tone colors will be an easy find. This print is more Deep than Clear due to the amount of contrast. More colors, the less contrast.
This top is a great example of bold jewel tone blues but with lower contrast. Deeps will love prints that have almost a watercolor or abstract feel.
This top is a great example of bold jewel tone blues but with lower contrast. Deeps will love prints that have almost a watercolor or abstract feel.

Dominant Cool – Choose A Print With Medium To High Contrast

Choosing A Print- Cools is all about the muted, slightly grey cooler colors but can still wear contrast. This striped shirt would look amazing on a Cool
Cools is all about the muted cooler colors but can still wear contrast. This striped shirt would look amazing on a Cool
Higher contrast print but in Cool colors that you can easily mix and match in your wardrobe
Higher contrast print but in Cool colors that you can easily mix and match in your wardrobe

Dominant Warm-Look For Prints That Are Low To Medium Contrast

Warmer colors for Springtime can be hard to find. But this top is a great example of the Warm Color Code. A more muted floral in an array of spice colors
Warmer colors for Springtime can be hard to find. But this top is a great example of the Warm Color Code. A more muted floral in an array of spice colors
A great example of a Warm Color Code print is this multi-pattern print in Warm colors.
A great example of a Warm Color Code print is this multi-pattern print in Warm colors.

Dominant Soft- Look For Prints That Are More Muted With Low Contrast

Choosing A Print-Soft is the "key" word when selecting prints for the Soft Color Code. Prints with background of tans and creams will work well for Softs
Soft is the “key” word when selecting prints for the Soft Color Code. Prints with the background of tans and creams will work well for Softs
Soft prints can have multiple colors in the Soft Color Code. More colors more muted the print, and the softer the feel.
Soft prints can have multiple colors in the Soft Color Code. More colors more muted the print, and the softer the feel.

Dominant Clear- You Need High Contrast Prints

When looking for prints for someone who is Dominant Clear, the easiest prints are those with a background of white, black, or navy.

Choosing A Print-Black and white prints are the easiest to find for Clears. The size of the print matters too because too small of print and it loses its high contrast feel. So Petite Dominant Clear Code women may struggle to find prints that work for their body s
Black and white prints are the easiest to find for Clears. The size of the print matters too because too small of print and it loses its high contrast feel. So Petite Dominant Clear Code women may struggle to find prints that work for their body size.
Choosing A Print-It is hard to find tops that are Clear due to the amount of contrast needed. New York And Company is a good website for Clears. Not all tops need to be white, black, or navy background either. To be Clear t
It is hard to find tops that are Clear due to the amount of contrast needed. New York And Company is a good website for Clears. Not all tops need to be white, black, or navy background either. To be Clear the background needs to be in the Clear Color Code plus high contrast.

Everyone Has An Animal Print

Everyone has an animal print, but not all animal prints look best on everyone. Your “best” animal print will be determined by your Dominant Color Code.

Animal Print For Light

Animal Print For Light-For LIght Color Code, look for an animal print with a lighter background.
For LIght Color Code, look for an animal print with a lighter background.

Cheetah Print For Deep

Animal Print For Deep-For Deep Color Code, the traditional cheetah print will look AMAZING on a Deep
For Deep Color Code, the traditional cheetah print will look AMAZING on a Deep

Animal Print For Cool

Animal Print For Cool-Gray background with a black animal works well for Cool Color Code. They also can wear black/white animal prints too.
Gray background with a black animal works well for Cool Color Code. They also can wear black/white animal prints too.

Animal Print For Warm

Animal Print For Warm-he biggest consideration for Warms is the background of the animal print. It needs to be in the warmer colors of browns and creams.
The biggest consideration for Warms is the background of the animal print. It needs to be in the warmer colors of browns and creams.

Animal Print For Soft

Animal Print For Soft-An animal print for Soft Color Code needs to have a lighter, softer background. Softs also look good in snake print with a cream background. Softs can also rock snake prints.
An animal print for Soft Color Code needs to have a lighter, softer background. Softs also look good in snake print with a cream background. Softs can also rock snake prints.

Zebra For Clear

Zebra Print or Black/White stripes are great print choices for Clear Color Code
Zebra Print or Black/White stripes are great print choices for Clear Color Code
Animal Print For Clear-Abstract animal prints with a black or white background will work well for Clear Color Code. You can choose a color background as long as it is in the Clear Color Code. Remember, with more colors, you lose your contrast.
Abstract animal prints with a black or white background will work well for Clear Color Code. You can choose a color background as long as it is in the Clear Color Code. Remember, with more colors, you lose your contrast.

Color Rules When Choosing Prints

A good “Rule Of Thumb” when choosing a print is that the majority of the colors need to be in your color code. The background color must be in your color code. The more colors in a print, the less contrast. Many prints can be worn for multiple color codes. Also, you may not have a “dominant” color code and can wear multiple. For example, if you were color analyzed as a Winter, you may be able to wear cool, clear, and deep colors.

Choosing A Print- This print does NOT work for me. The background is NOT in my Clear Color Code. It is too soft and does not have enough contrast. Also, the top does not fit well and needs to be altered. It was put in the sell pile and I sold it on Treds Up.
This print does NOT work for me. The background is NOT in my Clear Color Code. It is too soft and does not have enough contrast. Also, the top does not fit well and needs to be altered. It was put in the sell pile and I sold it on Treds Up.
Another top that did not work. First, the colors are NOT in my Winter Seasonal Palette or my Dominant Clear Color Code. I love Lilly Pulitzer prints but most do not work for me. This print was also muted due to the multiple colors and patterns.
Another top that did not work. First, the colors are NOT in my Winter Seasonal Palette or my Dominant Clear Color Code. I love Lilly Pulitzer prints but most do not work for me. This print was also muted due to the multiple colors and patterns.
I love a Kimono, but this one did not work for me. The reason is that the colors in my kimono are too muted and mostly dominate Cool. Plus the pattern is too large and does not work with my STAR STYLE. This kimono will look amazing on someone who is taller.
I love a Kimono, but this one did not work for me. The reason is that the colors in my kimono are too muted and mostly dominate Cool. Plus the pattern is too large and does not work with my STAR STYLE. This kimono will look amazing on someone who is taller.

This is where it is good to experiment, try on different pieces, take a selfie and analyze. Decide why or why not something is working for you. It may be personal preference or you may realize you do favor one color code over another. Make sure you put together the outfit in totality- including makeup and accessories. Seeing the “whole” pictures really help to understand better.

Don’t Forget Body Type Rules When Choosing Prints

This is when you want to look at necklines and other details such as sleeve length, buttons, and gatherings. Also style and length of the shirt. For example, someone who is a b Body Shape or Apple will want a top that is longer and covers their belly. While someone who is a d Body Shape or Pear wants to make sure the top stops before the widest part of their body, usually the hips.

Choosing A Print-Here is a great example of a top I can wear with all my Clear Color Code pieces and most Winter Seasonal Color Palette items. I chose not to alter, instead to use the "half tuck" to make sure this top hits above my widest part.
Here is a great example of a top I can wear with all my Clear Color Code pieces and most Winter Seasonal Color Palette items. I chose not to alter, instead to use the “half tuck” to make sure this top hits above my widest part.

It is important that the tops are NOT too small. Ladies, no one will know your size unless you tell them! Plus, manufacturers sizing is all over the place. So, get a top that fits properly or be prepared to alter. If it doesn’t fit and you will not alter- DO NOT BUY!!!!

Choosing A Print- Remember STAR STYLE

STAR STYLE is taking into account height and weight when looking at proportion. The three STAR STYLES are GLAMOUR GIRL, MOVIE STAR, and ROCK STAR. If you are NOT at your ideal weight you can move up in STAR STYLE. More about STAR STYLE check out my blog post DRESSING YOUR STAR STYLE

Lots To Think About

No wonder prints are so hard. So much to think about and so much to take into consideration. But if you get it right, your prints should be able to go with many of the items in your closet (because they are in your color code). So mixing and matching will be a breeze. Prints are powerful, they can make you look slimmer. Part 3 in my print series will be the Power Of Prints!

Categories: Fashion

Picking Out Prints Using Star Style

Hello, Darlings! Today’s topic is Picking Out Prints Using Star Style. Prints are hard. I have struggled with prints for years, but I have been taking a class on fashion and have a new perspective when choosing prints. But first, you need to learn your STAR STYLE.

Picking Out Prints Using Star Style

Picking Out Prints Using STAR STYLE

Know Your STAR STYLE

We talk a lot about body types when discussing fashion, but that is only one part of the puzzle. Color is another part, but proportion is the third. When I talk about proportion, I am referring to your height and weight. As a petite person ( 5’1) I have always struggled with proportion, but now I have a better understanding after learning my STAR STYLE

  • If you are under 5’3 you are a GLAMOUR GIRL
  • If you are 5’3 to 5’7 you are a MOVIE STAR
  • 5’8 and taller you are a ROCK STAR

I love the STAR STYLE because it is positive and reminds us that everyone is a star, we just need to learn how to dress our “Star Style”.

** Star Style is created by Shari Braendel of Fashion Meets Faith. Check out her youtube channel for more style tips.

How To Dress A GLAMOUR GIRL

A GLAMOUR GIRL is petite, under 5’3 so proportion is very important. Large oversized prints will make you look even smaller. The same with oversized handbags and jewelry. A GLAMOUR GIRL needs to select prints that are on a smaller scale.

Prints For A GLAMOUR GIRL

Star Style- smaller prints work best on a GLAMOUR GIRL
This top from the Loft is a small-scale print and would work on a GLAMOUR GIRL. This muted multi-colored modern floral will work best on someone with a color code that is Soft.
Picking Out Prints-this smaller print will work best on a Petite or GLAMOUR GIRL
Another small-scale print from the Loft is more high contrast and would work best of those whose color codes are tonally more Clear or Light
This vertical stripe top with a narrower stripe will create the illusion of height
A thinner stripe will work better on a GLAMOUR GIRL, such as this top from the Loft. Also, the vertical pattern can create the illusion of height.

How To Dress A MOVIE STAR

If you are 5’3 to 5’7 you can wear prints that are medium in size. The same with handbags and jewelry. Don’t go too small or dainty or it will look out of proportion. Large or oversized print, handbags, and jewelry can make you look heavy and out of proportion.

Prints For A MOVIE STAR

MOVIE STARS can wear medium size prints such as this black and white top from Loft
This top creates almost a diamond shape and would work well on a MOVIE STAR
Everyone has a polka dot! This medium size print will work great on MOVIE STARS
This darling polka dot top is a medium print and would work very well on a MOVIE STAR
Plaids are hard and taking into consideration your height and weight will help you in choosing the right one
I have always struggled with checks and plaid. Not really my personal style, but know I know that a larger plaid pattern would work best on someone who is taller, such as a MOVIE STAR
Picking Out Prints Using STAR STYLE- medium size stripes works best on MOVIE STARS
MOVIE STARS can wear larger sized stripes
Florals for MOVIE STARS need to be medium in size, too small and it will make you look larger
This medium-sized floral print would work great on a MOVIE STAR

How To Dress A ROCK STAR

A ROCK STAR is 5’8 or taller and can have several challenges. Tops that are long enough and fit properly are some of the greatest challenges. A ROCK STAR needs to select prints that are larger in scale and bolder. ROCK STARS can wear large or oversized handbags and jewelry with style. A ROCK STAR needs to stay away from dainty jewelry and small prints and handbags as this will make her look out of proportion and larger than she is.

Women over 5'7 can wear larger prints like a ROCK STAR
This Scarf Front Cardigan from Chicos would look amazing on a ROCK STAR due to the large-sized print. She can also wear larger earrings and bolder necklace.
This graphic dot print dress from Chicos will look amazing on a taller women
Only a ROCK STAR could pull off this large scale polka dot print dress with style.
Picking Out Prints Using STAR STYLE- ROCK STARS can "rock" a larger print such as this top from Chicos
This large scale Drama Print from Chicos is also a longer length that would well on a ROCK STAR

Dressing Your STAR STYLE- Exceptions To The Rule

Dressing STAR STYLE takes into account not just height but weight too. So if you are NOT at your ideal weight you can move up a category.

  • GLAMOUR GIRLS who are not 0-4 can move up to MOVIE STAR category
  • MOVIE STARS who are not size 6-8 can move up to ROCK STARS
  • ROCK STARS can wear large scale or oversized prints but may move down to MOVIE STAR if they are size 10 or smaller.

You don’t have to move up a category, but can if you so choose. You have options. Experiment with size and proportion to find what is right for you.

Picking Out Prints Using STAR STYLE

Still Need To Know And Understand Your Body Type

You will still need to take into consideration those “Body Type Rules” when selecting a print top or bottom. As a Pear or d Body Type, I do not need to wear prints on the bottom half of my body. Too much attention is drawn to my “challenge areas”. But I can wear printed tops, scarves, and layering pieces with style.

Analyzing Prints For STAR STYLE

I have struggled with prints, especially selecting tops from the Petite section. Now I know why! Because even though I am technically a GLAMOUR GIRL, I am not at my ideal weight, and wearing too small of prints makes me look larger- EEEK! So when selecting a print for a top, scarf, or layering piece I look for more medium-size prints to make me look more balanced and in proportion.

Stripes

Picking Out Prints Using STAR STYLE- Medium size stripe works best on me
I love a good stripe, this one is my favorite because it is a medium-size, black and white stripe

Graphic Animal Print

Picking Out Prints Using STAR STYLE- This medium size graphic animal print looks amazing and in proportion
Animal prints are my favorites! This bold hot pink and white graphic animal print is the right size for my body

Zebra

Picking Out Prints Using STAR STYLE- Zebra is my favorite print and this one is medium in size and works best for my body
Zebra is one of my best prints and this one is of medium size and works very well

Plaid

Knowing the right size plaid makes it easier to pick out plaid prints. This one is more medium in size
Plaids are tricky and not my best print, but this one is a medium-size to large size and may not be my best plaid.

Snow Leopard

Picking Out Prints Using STAR STYLE-  I knew immediately that this coat was a winner, it's print size is perfect for my body size.
Another fabulous animal print that gets so much wear. One of my favorites and now I understand why it works so well in my wardrobe

Narrowing It Down To Make It Easier To Shop

Picking Out Prints Using STAR STYLE- this top from Cabi Clothing has a medium size floral pattern that will work with my body size.
I bought this medium-sized floral print in navy and white. It will go great with white jeans and navy pants. I will need to alter the top to fit or do a “half-tuck”

Recently I was at a Cabi Clothing show and could quickly and easily pick out outfits to try one by narrowing it down to Color and Star Style. Because Cabi does not carry Petites, any top I buy I would need to alter, so that is taken into consideration when I make a purchase.

Prints Are Hard

Prints are hard so I am dedicating another post or two to help you understand all the considerations you need to take in before selecting a print. The goal is to have some in our wardrobe to mix and match with solids to give us variety. But we only want to add those that we will actually wear, if not, they are taking up valuable real estate in our wardrobe.

Categories: Fashion

What Is Dopamine Dressing?

Hello, Darlings! Today’s topic is What Is Dopamine Dressing? A Spring Trend for 2022, I thought the topic needed its own blog post. Dopamine Dressing is dressing for happiness, mood-boosting. COVID lockdowns and continued restriction are bringing somber moods and lots of mental health issues. Feeling good about ourselves starts with self-care, and includes making an effort to get dressed and look good.

It is time to get out of the sweatpants and baggy shirts and take an interest in fashion. My first step into Dopamine Dressing started with a simple Google search for Colorful Clothes.

What Is Dopamine Dressing

What Is Dopamine Dressing

What Is Dopamine Dressing?

Dopamine Dressing is a predicated Spring Trend For 2022. It is dressing with the intention of boosting your mood using color, style, and texture. Color, style, and texture can all have psychological associations tied to memories. Getting out of your comfort zone (and out of those sweatpants/baggy shirts) can actually create a dopamine release.

Dopamine Dressing- Wearing patterns, color or texture that evoke feelings or memories. This crochet duster brings back wonderful memories of my grandmother.
This Crochet Duster is an example of Dopamine Dressing. The pattern and colors of this duster bring back strong memories of my grandmother and the times we spent together. She loved to crochet and knit, spending time trying to teach me. I have fond memories of the many quilts laying around, showcasing her hard work and talent.

Dopamine- The Happiness Booster

Dopamine is a type of neurotransmitter or chemical messenger associated with mood, energy, and focus. It is associated with mental health and too little can lead to many of the mental health issues we see in today’s society. Often called the “happy hormone” a dopamine release can occur when we do things that bring joy or are associated with strong memories – sex, shopping, baking cookies in the oven.

Retail Therapy is REAL. Shopping for new items can create a dopamine release giving you the feeling of happiness.
Retail Therapy is REAL. Shopping for new items can create a dopamine release giving you the feeling of happiness.

This is why Retail Therapy often gives a quick dopamine hit. Feels good to buy something new. But you can increase your dopamine levels by getting enough sleep, exercising, sitting in the sun, yoga, or just listening to music.

Wearing bright bold colors getting outside in the sunshine and exercising will cause a dopamine release.
Wearing bright bold colors getting outside in the sunshine and exercising will cause a dopamine release.

Dopamine Dressing – Pick Colors That Make You Feel Happy

Color is powerful! Wearing certain color can boost your mood, and release dopamine, the happy hormone. Colors also have meanings, some are just made up, others are associated with culture and history. For example, in some cultures wearing black to a funeral is a sign of respect and emphasizes the somber mood. While other cultures will wear white as a sign of purity and respect for the departed and family.

Hot Pink is my "Signature Color". When I wear it I feel pretty, flirty, and full of energy. If I need a mood boost, I reach for the many Hot Pink/Fuchsia items I have in my closet
Hot Pink is my “Signature Color”. When I wear it I feel pretty, flirty, and full of energy. If I need a mood boost, I reach for the many Hot Pink/Fuchsia items I have in my closet.

Color Psychology

Do you associate certain colors with feelings and emotions? What does your favorite color mean? Some of this is a little “mumbo jumbo” but I do find it interesting. For example, I LOVE Hot Pink, I would consider it my signature color. When I wear it I feel pretty and vibrant and full of energy.

Check out the chart below to see what your favorite color represents.

Color Psychology- What does your favorite color represent

Dopamine Dressing- Dressing To Bring Joy

Okay, ladies, it is time to bring out the color. Dopamine Dressing focuses on color, so for Spring 2022, it is time to add color to your wardrobe or start wearing more of the bold and bright colors you already have in your closet. This doesn’t have to be a huge investment, it can simply be adding a colorful scarf to a neutral outfit to give it the POP of color.

Add A Scarf For Easy Dopamine Dressing

Easy Dopamine Dressing- An all-grey outfit is immediately "lifted" with the addition of a scarf in bright colors. Scarves are excellent accessories to help transition from winter to spring.
An all-grey outfit is immediately “lifted” with the addition of a scarf in bright colors. Scarves are excellent accessories to help transition from winter to spring.

Chose A Color That Represents Spring Time And New Birth

 LOVE the freshness of green. This is a color I will be adding more to in my wardrobe this spring. It evokes nature and rebirth, all the things that are so evident as we watch all the new spring growth and flowers emerge after a quite dreary winter.
LOVE the freshness of green. This is a color I will be adding more to in my wardrobe this spring. It evokes nature and rebirth, all the things that are so evident as we watch all the new spring growth and flowers emerge after a quite dreary winter.

Colors Of The Sea Make Me Think Of The Calmness Of The Ocean

The beach is my "happy place" and colors such as turquoise and this Chines Blue are constant reminders of the feelings and memories I associate with my time on the coast. Wearing white makes me feel clean and cool, a freshness.
The beach is my “happy place” and colors such as turquoise and this Chines Blue are constant reminders of the feelings and memories I associate with my time on the coast. Wearing white makes me feel clean and cool, a freshness.

Even Your Favorite Neutral Can Have A Dopamine Effect

 All Black, my happy place! Not just because I feel slimmer in black but I also feel sexy. When I have to dress for an event or even Date Night, black is my go-to.
All Black, my happy place! Not just because I feel slimmer in black but I also feel sexy. When I have to dress for an event or even Date Night, black is my go-to.

Simple Formula For Dopamine Dressing- Add One POP Of Color

Easy Dopamine Dressing -Adding a POP of color to your favorite neutral is an easy way to create an outfit that is uplifting and interesting.
Adding a POP of color to your favorite neutral is an easy way to create an outfit that is uplifting and interesting.
Dopamine Dressing -Feeling Blue in Blue? Not me, blue is not a super energizing color but a color I feel grounded in. Blue is a color I wear to appointments when I need to be calm and secure feeling.
Feeling Blue in Blue? Not me, blue is not a super energizing color but a color I feel grounded in. Blue is a color I wear to appointments when I need to be calm and secure feeling.

Don’t Forget Makeup

Don’t underestimate the “dopamine effect” when you take the time to fix your hair and do your makeup. When was the last time you had a compliment on your hair? If it has been more than a month, then it is time to go and have a new haircut or color. Your hair is one of the first things people see when you walk into a room.

Time to throw away the masks and bring back lipstick. Treat yourself to a new bolder shade this season to go with brighter colors
Time to throw away the masks and bring back lipstick. Treat yourself to a new bolder shade this season to go with brighter colors

During COVID most women got out of the habit of wearing cosmetics. Do you need to refresh your makeup, add new colors? Ladies, it is time to throw away the mask and reach for lipstick again. We need to see those smiles again! To help balance the bolder, brighter colors, you may need a new color of lipstick. Now is a great time to go and “play” in the cosmetics section and treat yourself to some new colors.

Add A Dose Of Dopamine With A Manicure & Pedicure

Treat yourself to a manicure and pedicure, choose a bold bright color for Spring. Lots of colors and classic nude/blush colors to chose from. It feels good to pamper yourself.

Treat yourself to a manicure & pedicure with bold bright colors of Spring

Dopamine Dressing- Dressing For Happiness

There is a mood boost you get when you wear something new and colorful. You don’t have to spend a lot of money, SHOP YOUR CLOSET first, then add a couple of pieces. It might be a simple colorful T-shirt, a scarf, or new lipstick.

Knowing your BEST colors does help. Here are a couple of Color Quizzes you can take to help decide your best colors

Style By Color Quiz– Dominate Color Code

Seasonal Color Analysis Quiz

Categories: Fashion

Spring Trends For 2022

Hello, Darlings! Today we are talking Spring Trends For 2022. Trends come and go, and many of these trends may not work with your body type or personal style. But it is fun to be aware of what is out in the marketplace.

Before you go out and buy this season, SHOP YOUR CLOSET! Many of these trends have been trends in the past. I have several of these that I consider classic pieces in my wardrobe.

Spring Trends For 2022

Stripes Are EVERYWHERE

Because of my need for contrast, I like a good stripe. This is a trend I am going to be watching and potentially adding something new to my wardrobe. I am looking for a pure white/black stripe T-shirt this season.

Trend for Spring 2022-Stripes. Shop Your Closet first before buying
SHOP MY CLOSET- This striped dress with denim detail got tons of wear and will be on trend this year
Spring 2022 Trend- Stripes. One of my favorite pieces in my wardrobe is the bold black/white striped jersey knit jacket
SHOP MY CLOSET- My favorite blazer is the bold black/white stripe jersey knit jacket several years old from Chicos. It is now a classic in my wardrobe
Cold shoulder trend is gone, but I am going to cut the straps off this top and wear it as an off the shoulder top
SHOP MY CLOSET- Cold shoulder trend has faded, but I still love these black and white stripes for contrast. May remove the straps and wear this top as an off the shoulder style.

Animal Prints Are Still HOT

Animal prints are almost a classic in the wardrobe. An all-year-long style, you can find them in color or classic neutral colors. My best animal print is the bold black/white zebra. I have added a short zebra print scarf this year.

Spring 2022 Trends- Animal prints are still hot. This colorful graphic animal print works great with all my active wear pieces
SHOP MY CLOSET- Fun animal print in athletic wear. This top is from Tail Activewear
Spring Trend 2022- Zebra is still so HOT. Lots of zebra print out in the market place.
SHOP MY CLOSET- I love a shell/tank top/camisole to add prints to an outfit. This zebra stripe has become a favorite because it goes with all my bold Winter colors.
Even in pajamas and loungewear, you will find animal prints
SHOP MY CLOSET- Animal print PJ/loungewear. My favorite pair of pajamas features this great graphic animal print in white/black. These are from Soma
Skinny Zebra Print Scarf is the newest addition to my accessory wardrobe
Skinny Zebra Print Scarf is a new addition to my wardrobe for the Spring season.

Gingham For Fresh Youthful Look

Stores such as Talbots and Draper James are going to be full of gingham this season. This particular trend does not work well with my personal style so I don’t have any in my wardrobe. It is a little too “Cute Classic” for me. But if it is a trend you gravitate to, you should have lots to choose from this season.

Spring Trend 2022- Gingham
A little too "Cute Classic" for me, but you will find it plentiful this season
Fresh and youthful, gingham is considered a classic look for spring and is trending for 2022. You will find gingham print in tops, dresses, shoes, handbags, and sweaters such as this English Factory Gingham Knit Cardigan from Nordstrom

Polka Dots Are BACK

I really don’t think they ever left. Considered a classic look, you will find lots to choose from this spring. For some reason, I do not wear them well, even if it is high-contrast polka dot. This again goes to personal style. If it doesn’t work for you, you don’t have to wear it, even if it is a hot trend.

Spring Trend 2022- Polka Dots
I consider polka dots more of a classic look.
You will see the classic black/white polka dots as well as bolder colors.

Tie Dye Is Still In Style

Tie Dye trend was super hot last summer with big bold colors. This year you will see the trend again, but it will be softer, more muted, beach style.

Spring Trend 2022- Tie Dye but more softer and muted
SHOP MY CLOSET- Combining stripe look and tie-dye, this top is perfect for the beach with a turquoise blue/white combo

Crochet For Touch Of Nostagia

When I found this duster I almost broke out in tears. It immediately reminded me of the many quilts my grandmother used to make. For Spring/Summer Crochet is still trending with sweaters, handbags, and totes. You might even find it with additional fringe detailing.

Crochet sweater, handbags, totes are trending
SHOP MY CLOSET- Crochet dusters bring back memories of the ’60s and ’70s when crochet was hot in both fashion and home decor. Look for it in sweaters, handbags, and totes.

Spring Trend 2022- Return Of Denim Skirts

Denim skirts have been around but this year you are going to be seeing them in a longer midi style, two-toned denim, pencil skirts, and minis with frayed hems. Personally, I don’t think this is a trend I will be trying as the midi length does not look good on me due to my height.

Spring Trend 2022- Denim skirts are back. Frayed, longer midi lengths are hot this season
Denim skirts are making a style statement this Spring with longer lengths and frayed hems.

Trends In Denim Jeans

You are going to see several trends in denim jeans this season. One of the is Crafty Jeans, jeans with patches, painted embellishments. This is NOT a trend I will be trying because it draws too much attention to my bottom. Also, low-rise and super flared jeans are making a comeback. (insert sad face)

Crafty Jeans are the newest trend for denim this season. Patches and painted embellishments
Crafty Jeans are going to be the newest trend in denim. Patches and painted embellishments will be added to jeans. This is reminiscent of the ’90s and is referred to as the Y2K Style Trend.

Dark denim and white denim are still on-trend and if that is on your shopping list you should be able to find a good selection. Skinny jeans are going out and ankle, cropped, kick flared jeans are going to be plentiful. Distressed jeans are still on-trend, mostly frayed hemlines.

Very Peri- Many Shades Of Purple

With Very Peri, a periwinkle purple/blue color being the Pantone color of the year, purple is going to be everywhere. Last year I added several purple pieces to my wardrobe and really loved them.

Purple is going to be strong this season. Lots of different shades as well as the Very Peri/periwinkle color of the year
SHOP MY CLOSET- This is the Betty Cowl Top from Kettlewell Colours in Pansy.

Hoping To Find Lots Of Fresh Green

Is Green going to have a moment. I am waiting to see what I can find in this bold and fresh color this season.
I only have a few items in my wardrobe in the color green. Hoping to add more with the launch of the Kettlewell Colours Spring Collection next week. The color is so bright and fresh.

Green is trending in home decor and I am hoping to see more of it in fashion. Adding more Green to my wardrobe is high on my shopping list.

SHOP YOUR CLOSET First!

Before you buy anything this season, SHOP YOUR CLOSET. Make a list of any holes you have in your wardrobe. Try on clothes for the fit and start to create outfits that can make the transition into Spring. Take the time to organize your closet so you can easily see what you already have. I still believe we will continue to see inventory issue so being able to quickly grab any item you may need will be key.

I am working on my personal shopping list for Spring. It is not very long at all as I have really worked to pair down my wardrobe and concentrate on only those items that look good on my body type, in my best colors, and work with my personal style.

Categories: Fashion

Valentine’s Day Style

Hello, Darlings! Valentine’s Day Style- What To Wear Out To Dinner.It is time to dig deep into the wardrobe for some pink and red to help celebrate Valentine’s Day. Since fashion is planned and not left up to chance, I decided to take an afternoon to test out some potential outfits.

First I think it is really important to get out of the way, I do not like to eat out on Valentine’s Day. Too many times we have gone to dinner only to have it crowded and the food overpriced and not good. So we try to celebrate by going out to dinner or even a nice lunch on a day that is around February 14th.

This year our plan is to go out to dinner at one of my favorite restaurants, Surfing Deer in Seagrove Beach. Going to pop down for a quick trip to the beach, hoping the weather is nice or should I say warmer. We have been in the deep freeze and I am in need of some sunshine.

Valentine’s Day Style- What To Wear Out To Dinner

Valentine's Day Style- What To Wear Out To Dinner

What To Wear For Valentine’s Day

Okay, let’s think about this! For my Valentine’s Day Outfit I need something that is Date Night Style with some color and a touch of bling. Because it can be cool to cold in February, I need to have sleeves and/or a layering piece. I will stick with my black pants, cropped pants, or black jeans. For shoes, I can do my platform open-toe shoes or my black boots. No heels or dress needed.

Outfit #1- Pink And Black

Valentine's Day Style- Go PINK! I like this pink and black outfit with some smokey bling
Pink And Black and a bit of BLING!

For this Valentine’s Day Style Outfit, I went for a black sleeveless faux wrap top ( I think it was several years ago from the Banana Republic) with my black cropped/ankle Ponte knit pants from Boston Proper. If the weather is too cold, I can go with my black Ponte knit pants from Boston Proper with my black boots. For a layering piece, I went for my Shawl Wrap Cardigan in Cerise Pink from Kettlewell Colors.

Next, for accessories, I decided to go for the bling. A bold statement necklace in gunmetal with smokey rhinestones brings a unique and updated feel to the outfit without being overly romantic in style. Smaller matching earrings and a similar (but not matching) bracelet help to complete the outfit. For shoes, I chose my platform OTBT Jaunts. Planning a pedicure this weekend and will have my toes painted a charcoal grey.

Outfit #2- Fuchsia And Charcoal

Valentine's Day Style- Fuchsia and Charcoal
Fuchsia and Charcoal Grey

I really like Fuchsia and Charcoal together for a nice break from all black. The Betty Cowl Neck Top from Kettlewell Colours is the show stealer (one of my favorite tops, have it in all my best colors). Black cropped pants and my OTBT Jaunts create the base layer. I have added a cardigan, the Shawl Wrap from Kettlewell Colours in Fuchsia for a layering piece.

For my Rule of Four points, I have hoop earrings, layered necklaces, and multi-layered bracelets as accessories. Additional points can be awarded for the layering cardigan and the Betty Cowl top because it is such an attention grabber.

Outfit #3 – Red Faux Wrap

Red is traditional Valentine's Day Style color. Faux Wrap Sweater in Carmine Red is a great choice
Red is traditional Valentine’s Day Style color

Red is the typical Valentine’s Day color. I don’t have much red in my closet (can read too warm), so this year I added a couple of pieces in a deep bluish-red called Carmine Red. This is the Merino Faux-Wrap Sweater from Kettlewell Colours. Medium weight and not itchy, this works well in my wardrobe for those colder evenings.

I have paired the sweater with my black Wit and Wisdom Bootcut Jeans from Nordstrom and my black boots. To level it up I have added a bold statement necklace, silver hoop earrings, a layered bracelet, and my watch. The last couple of weeks I have gone back to wearing watches again. Not only does it give me a point in the Rule of Fours, I like being able to tell time without reaching for my phone.

Outfit #4 – Bubblegum Pink And Fuchsia

Fuchsia and Bubblegum Pink reminds me of those little heart candies with the saying that your get on Valentine's Day.
Tonal look with two shades of pink

This is probably my favorite. I like the somewhat tonal look this outfit creates with the Bubblegum Pink Betty Cowl and Fuchsia Shawl Wrap Cardigan. There is a sweetness that reminds me of those little heart candies with sayings on them.

For accessories, I went with 3 simple necklaces layered together, hoop earrings, and my layered beaded bracelet. Colorful, simple, yet interesting. This outfit checks all the boxes for the body type fit, color, Rule of Fours, and personal style.

Outfit #5 – Red And Black

Red and Black for Valentine's Day Style is a simple yet classic option.
Red and Black for classic style

Do you have a problem wearing color because it reminds you of a rival team? Red is one of those colors for me. As an Auburn Fan, red represents both Alabama and Georgia which are both huge rival teams. I can’t wear this outfit on principle but it is a great classic look.

For this classic look, I have on my silver hoop earrings and a favorite necklace of mine, the Eccentric Necklace from Chicos. It is a necklace that goes with almost everything.

Outfit #6 – Fuchsia And Black

Fuchsia and Black has been my go-to option for Valentine's Day Style. Easy to add bold jewelry or some bling to level it up for special day.
Fuchsia And Black Is my go-to look

This is probably my default combo. I feel extremely comfortable in the Black and Fuchsia combo. Nothing wrong with it, I might wear this on Sunday for church this weekend. But I think for Valentine’s Day Style I need to add just a little bit more.

Fashion Is Planned!

One huge lesson I have learned is to plan out outfits. Don’t wait for the last minute and “hope” you have something in your closet that will work. Do a test run, put on your makeup and try on different outfit options including shoes and accessories. This will help you see if you need to make some changes, fill in some holes in your wardrobe, or find new pieces to work for the occasion.

Next, TAKE A SELFIE! Mirrors lie, selfie’s don’t. Taking a photo of you in the outfit helps you to realistically analyze the look and make changes accordingly. Add your photo to a folder or create your own stylebook. For me, this has been a huge help in seeing how my wardrobe and style have been evolving.

No Hearts Or Sweaters With LOVE On It For Me

This time of year I see so many options for Valentine’s Day Style. But what I have discovered is that these items are too “cute” for my personal style. I even tried on a scarf with hearts on it during my try-on session, I felt a little silly in it because it just did not match my personal style. I am Soft Classic Style which prioritizes simplicity and comfort.

For many people, these items work great. It just does not work for me. Instead, I SHOP MY CLOSET and found combinations that work for me using color to create Valentine’s Day Styles.

Categories: Fashion

How To Wear A Poncho

Hello, Darlings! Today’s topic is How To Wear a Poncho. I LOVE a good poncho. Ponchos are great for adding a big POP of color and for warmth during the colder winter months. Also referred to as toppers, the poncho can be a great piece to transition from Winter into Spring. But many people are confused about how to actually wear them.

How To Wear A Poncho

How To Wear A Poncho

What Is A Poncho?

Historically, the poncho is an outer garment used to keep a person warm. It originated from South America and was made from heavy woolen fabric with a center opening for the head. You also hear of rain ponchos, made the same way but from waterproof fabrics. Ruana is another term for a poncho.

How To Wear A Poncho

Start With A Base Layer

Since a poncho is by definition more of an outer garment, you are going to need a base layer. When I wear a poncho, my base layer is usually a black long sleeve top. My go-to long sleeve base layer tops are the Silky Roll Neck Top from Kettlewell Colours or the Silky Scoop Neck Top from Kettlewell Colours in Black. The fabric is a silky modal with elastane so it forms to the skin. What you do not want as a base layer is bulk.

Play With The Drape And Neckline

Once you put the poncho over the head, this is where things get a little…. confusing. How does it go? Well, it depends on how it was made. Sometimes the tag can give you a clue, but my best advice is to check the website from the manufacturer for a picture.

How To Wear A Poncho- Check the retailer's website for styling tips
It helps to check out the pictures on the retailer’s website to better understand how to style a poncho. This is the City Poncho From Kettlewell Colours. It is styled with a turtleneck top as a base layer.
How To Wear A Poncho- Check manufacturers pictures for how to style it
Here is how the retailer InCashmere styled the topper

It Is Suppose To Be…. Drapey

It is supposed to be drapey, asymmetrical. For people like me who are minimalist and like symmetry, this can be quite problematic. Relax, enjoy, think of it the same way you do a scarf. It is just a POP of color. Don’t overthink it, but play with it until you feel comfortable. Take a selfie! That way you can evaluate.

Add Scarf For Additional Attention UP Towards The Face

A scarf is a fun way to add additional color up towards the face, but it also can hide the weird drapey look of a poncho neckline. Sometimes when I wear a poncho I feel it needs something, either a scarf or necklace. A scarf is also a great way to add additional color to your outfit and help with the Rule of Four.

How To Wear A Poncho- Add a scarf for additional attention UP towards the face
Add a scarf, such as the Florence Infinity Scarf from Kettlewell Colours in Acid Yellow to bring attention UP towards the face.
Add additional color to an outfit with a scarf.
Adding a scarf works similarly to a necklace. You can use the scarf to hide the opening of the poncho if you feel uncomfortable with the drape. LOVE the color Jewel Lobelia from the City Poncho at Kettlewell Colours

Add A Statement Necklace

Because a poncho is a BIG piece of color, you need to bring attention back up towards the face, especially if you are a Pear Body Type. You can do this with larger earrings and a statement necklace.

How To Wear A Poncho- Add a statement necklace
Large silver hoop earrings and silver statement necklace help bring attention up towards the face
Make sure you have all your points in the Rule of Four when wearing a poncho.
As for Rule of Four, +1 for layering poncho, +1 for the necklace, +1 for the bracelet, and +1 for a watch. For a total of 4 points
Bold colors such as this bright pink poncho from Lily Pulitzer is a great way to transition from winter to spring
Hot pink poncho from Lily Pulitzer with a statement necklace. This poncho is several years old and still a favorite in my closet
How To Wear A Poncho- adding big hoop earrings and a silver statement necklace helps to complete the look
Bold turquoise color poncho from Lily Pulitzer is a great transitional piece from winter to spring. Here I have added silver hoops and a silver statement necklace to keep attention towards my face.

Don’t Like A Long Poncho? Try A Shorter Topper

One thing you need to watch for when selecting a poncho is length. It can not hit at the widest part of your body, especially if you are a Pear. Longer ponchos will make you look, shorter, so you need to make sure your pants/jeans and shoes match to give you a little bit more of an illusion of height.

How To Wear A Poncho- Not sure about the length? Try a shorter topper instead
A shorter topper style poncho is a great option for Petites

For Petites, a shorter topper may be just the thing. The company InCashmere makes great shorter toppers. I got a gorgeous fuchsia one for Christmas. I will be watching what colors they come out with for their Spring/Summer collection.

Have fun playing with the drape of a poncho or topper. Here I have added simple layered necklaces and gave the topper a little more drape to show them off
Here you see how I have let it just do its thing drape-wise. Because it drapes lower, I can wear my layered necklaces and hoop earrings.

Add A SPLASH Of Color To Help Ward Off The Winter Blues

The Winter Blues is a real thing. Longer nights, colder days help usher in the feelings of depression each year about this time. January is not my best month so I really try to bring some “happiness” by adding BIG splashes of color in my wardrobe. A poncho is a perfect piece for color and warmth. I am always getting compliments when I wear my ponchos out. At the same time, I meet so many people who are fearful of trying poncho. I tell them to have fun and don’t take it too seriously. Just think of it as wearing a nice blanket.

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